Pastor's Breakfast Brings Small Community Together


When we find ourselves living in remote places it can be hard to find ways to fellowship. If you find yourself in a small town with no places to gather, perhaps it is time to consider making the local diner a new favorite for community gathering. Lonnie Grose serves a three-point charge in Southern Anson County, NC, and realized he needed to find a way to bring his three churches together.


The Coyote Grill, a local restaurant on the outskirts of Morven NC, had been operating for some time and was really trying to build up their business. Lonnie asked if they could work with him to serve breakfast to his church group on the first Saturday of the month, and Jonathon, the restaurant owner, was very happy to host the event. From there - First Saturday Breakfast - or Pastor’s breakfast as some call it, was born.


From the start, Pastor Lonnie wanted his churches to know that this would be a time of Christian fellowship, they would not need to bring their Bibles, and he would not be trying to beat people over the head with sermons. Rather, Lonnie wanted the community to see what Christians looked like outside of the church - that they were welcoming, open, and friendly.


Slowly, this gathering grew from around ten people the first time to about 20% of his churches coming to have breakfast and fellowship with one another. This community quickly became a place that others who weren’t connected with the church saw God’s love in a positive way. It was a gathering for people to talk about God and the church with each other, where they didn’t see an opportunity to do so before simply because there was no local place for people to hang out. In fact, it was such an attraction to the community that some of the people they met started to attend their Sunday and Wednesday services.


The church does not financially sponsor this group, but rather everyone pays for their own breakfast. The owner of the restaurant offered them a great deal on the breakfast bar. At Christmas time, the Coyote Grill hosted a Christmas party with Pastor Lonnie and his wife Debbie dressed like Santa and Mrs. Claus. Local residents and businesses, church members and the restaurant donated over 100 toys, and the restaurant served breakfast for free. This was a great day for the church, the restaurant and the community to come together and showed just how successful having a place to gather outside of the church could be.


Jonathon and his staff at the Coyote Grill have been a great partner with the church. From the beginning, they have been supportive of what these churches are trying to do in reaching the community. Pastor Lonnie understands that in a divisive community, it is essential for the church to be seen as loving and welcoming to all people, and that is exactly what has happened in this First Saturday Pastor’s Breakfast... and Pastor Lonnie says “To God be the Glory”! 

Resources for Vital Congregations



Lewis Center for Church Leadership

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Books

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Serve Your Neighbor

GBHEM Leadership Resources


Living Faithfully: Human Sexuality and the United Methodist Church

Englewood Book Review

Five Practices of Fruitful Congregations

Ted Talks: The Golden Circle

Ted Talks: The Power of Vulnerability

Ted Talks: The Price of Invulnerability

Design Thinking

Meditations on the Ministry of All Christians


Be A Disciple

A Disciple’s Path; A Guide for United Methodist

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Adult Christian Studies from the Wesley Ministry Network

Traveling Together: A Guide for Disciple Forming Congregations


Living As United Methodist Christians

Methodist Doctrine: The Essentials

Reclaiming our Wesleyan Tradition: John Wesley’s Sermons for Today

John Wesley Sermons: Anthology


Get Their Name

Evangelism & Theology in the Wesleyan Spirit

Canoeing the Mountains

Fresh Expressions

Fresh Expressions: Dinner Church

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Reach New Disciples

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: 50 Ways to Reach People

Community: The Structure of Belonging


Institute for Emerging Issues

Congregations 4 Children


The Royce and Jane Reynolds Ministry Fund Grants

The Duke Endowment


The Appalachian District Church Vitality Team has been prayerfully seeking ways to help support you and the ministries of your local congregation during this COVID-19 pandemic. Together they have diligently researched and connected with others throughout the conference and our denomination to identify resources and offer them to you. We hope they will be helpful to you and bless you greatly in leading your churches and communities through this unprecedented time. We are very grateful to the District Vitality Team and other contributors for their great work on this resource.
This faithful team has created three documents, two of which you are receiving today. They include:

  • Family Home Worship – designed to help families establish a regular worship space within their homes as well as a time where they can worship together.
  • Tech Strategies – to help guide you in selecting effective tools and resources within your budget to best communicate in the digital world.

We believe these resources will be of great benefit to you. Also know that the District Vitality Team is available to answer any questions you might have in regards to the documents attached. If you have questions, you may email Rev. Howard Fleming at


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