Day 10- Random Reflections on My Experience at General Conference

 

by Kim Ingram I fear that the reports from this General Conference will be the same as what we heard after 2012: “We didn’t get anything done.”  However, we were told this afternoon that about 400 petitions have been approved. I participated in the Higher Education and Ministry and Superintendency legislative committee.  We began our work with 243 petitions.  We divided into 5 subcommittees and the work was distributed among those committees.  These small groups engaged in deep discussion and made recommendations to the full committee.  The full committee acted on as much legislation as we had time.  These small groups allowed for participants to get to know each other and to share intimately at times. 72 of these items have been approved as of this afternoon.  We made collegiate ministry a priority, expanded options for Course of Study, encouraged translation and cultural accommodations be made for candidates, approved group mentoring for local pastors and much more. Kim Ingram on Tuesday Morning Much has been said about the contention, hurt, pain, anger, and ugliness that has been experienced at General Conference.  And, there has been some of that.  But, it’s not the whole story. Here is what my new friend, Alice Williams, from Florida wrote to me about her experience in sub-committee discussion about the allowance of clergy to marry two gay persons:

If we need a model of what holy conferencing looks like, it is what took place in sub-committee during this discussion.  The sub-committee represented the diversity of our denomination in both demographics and beliefs.  The conversation was genuine, Spirit-led, respectful and enabled all present to be heard.  There were impactful stories of what it means to be in ministry regarding this issue, as well as reminders of severe cultural implications.  Several of the sub-committee have commented that this conversation was one of those defining moments that they will long-remember.

The best part of General Conference for me has been hearing the stories, celebrating ministries, and renewing and making friendships. There have been many reports about ministries churches are doing in their communities, around the world. We have heard story upon story about ways the Church is feeding the hungry, providing safe access to clean water, marching for peace in Korea, and even transforming a church building into a rock climbing venue where community is experienced. Today there was discussion on the floor about whether “transforming the world” is part of our mission as a church and our work as disciples.  I was amazed that we were having the conversation.  “Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” I made a new friend, Rev. Dr. Sergei Nikolaev. He was the vice chair on the legislative committee that I chaired.  As subcommittees worked, we had a lot of time to chat.  He is the President of the Moscow Theological Seminary, a UM seminary in Russia. He is Russian but has lived significant time in the United States.  His wife is American. He introduced me to the idea of “third culture,” what it is like not to feel you have a cultural home.  He recommended the book Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds by David C. Pollock and Ruth E. VanReken.  I imagine this is an idea that can be helpful in our ministry as North Carolina becomes more diverse and we minister with second and third generation Americans. My roomie, Jennifer Davis, and I had a chance to share cards and meal coupons with two men we passed on the way back to our room. They were holding a sign indicating they were hungry. GC4JC (General Conference for Jesus Christ), headed up by two of our own – Laura Beach and Kevin Miller – gave the opportunity to show love in tangible ways. GC4J The youth and children at the church where I worship – First UMC in Belmont – made bird seed ornaments to feed the birds and dog treats to feed the dogs and sold them to make money to purchase GC4JC meal coupons at $2.00 each.  They raised $272 through the sale.  They made 76 cards to be distributed by delegates and visitors along with the meal coupons.  What an exciting way for children and youth all around the country to be involved in ministry during General Conference in Portland. Learn more on their Facebook page. All of this said, I am proud to be a United Methodist. We are a people of hope.  We are a people of love.  We are a people of mercy. While negativity seems to prevail this week, there is much for which to be thankful, positive, and hope-full. At the end of each day, we still raise our voices in song together.  I’m not naïve.  We have a lot of work to do.  There’s a lot I don’t understand.  There’s a lot I want to change.  And, if we keep telling the stories and sharing God’s love, I am confident the world will be transformed. Kim Ingram is the WNC Conference Secretary and a clergy delegate

Resources for Vital Congregations

 

CHURCH LEADERSHIP

Lewis Center for Church Leadership

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Books

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Serve Your Neighbor

GBHEM Leadership Resources

eLEAD

Living Faithfully: Human Sexuality and the United Methodist Church

Englewood Book Review

Five Practices of Fruitful Congregations

Ted Talks: The Golden Circle

Ted Talks: The Power of Vulnerability

Ted Talks: The Price of Invulnerability

Design Thinking

Meditations on the Ministry of All Christians

DISCIPLE FORMATION:

Be A Disciple

A Disciple’s Path; A Guide for United Methodist

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Adult Christian Studies from the Wesley Ministry Network

Traveling Together: A Guide for Disciple Forming Congregations

WESLEYAN STUDIES:

Living As United Methodist Christians

Methodist Doctrine: The Essentials

Reclaiming our Wesleyan Tradition: John Wesley’s Sermons for Today

John Wesley Sermons: Anthology

REACHING PEOPLE:

Get Their Name

Evangelism & Theology in the Wesleyan Spirit

Canoeing the Mountains

Fresh Expressions

Fresh Expressions: Dinner Church

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: Reach New Disciples

Lewis Center for Church Leadership: 50 Ways to Reach People

Community: The Structure of Belonging

RESOURCES TO CONNECT WITH THE COMMUNITY:

Institute for Emerging Issues

Congregations 4 Children

GRANTS:

The Royce and Jane Reynolds Ministry Fund Grants

The Duke Endowment

OTHER:

The Appalachian District Church Vitality Team has been prayerfully seeking ways to help support you and the ministries of your local congregation during this COVID-19 pandemic. Together they have diligently researched and connected with others throughout the conference and our denomination to identify resources and offer them to you. We hope they will be helpful to you and bless you greatly in leading your churches and communities through this unprecedented time. We are very grateful to the District Vitality Team and other contributors for their great work on this resource.
 
This faithful team has created three documents, two of which you are receiving today. They include:

  • Family Home Worship – designed to help families establish a regular worship space within their homes as well as a time where they can worship together.
  • Tech Strategies – to help guide you in selecting effective tools and resources within your budget to best communicate in the digital world.

 
We believe these resources will be of great benefit to you. Also know that the District Vitality Team is available to answer any questions you might have in regards to the documents attached. If you have questions, you may email Rev. Howard Fleming at hfleming@wnccumc.net.
 

 

  • Resources
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